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« Reply #90 on: January 17, 2008, 02:06:28 PM »



Hi all. I am at the hospital right now Martha's Doctor came out a while ago. It doesn't look good for her. The cancer is in the lymph node system. I will know more later.

Harold


I talked to both Martha and Harold today at the hospital where Martha was to undergo surgery yesterday to remove a tumor for cervical cancer. I spent nearly an hour on the phone talking to both of them and was asked to relay what the outcome was of that surgery. I unfortunately do not bring good news today as the tumor was inoperable at this time. Further testing will be conducted as it seems as if the cancer has spread to her lymph node system. There is no prognosis as of yet however chemo therapy will be started as a treatment in the next few weeks.

From speaking to both of them I can say that Martha's spirits are good but there is a definite sense of pain in her voice which is understandable. Harold is the character I always know him as and will not leave Martha's side. We even had a laugh comparing speel chekers, he likes the forum one, I like the Google toolbar one. They do have one of those television PC's in the room so I am sure they both will be checking in on this thread from time to time. Hopefully we can all crack a smile on there faces in this thread and the other threads throughout the forum, even better I think we can make that happen even quicker with what I am suggesting below.

SHS

SHS = Sellers Helping Sellers

If you click on the ribbon above (please note this ribbon will be changed out later today where it is hosted) it will take you to a fundraising listing at www.thetraderspost.com that goes directly into Martha & Harold's paypal account. Now you will see changes from time to time in the fundraising listings as we update with sites and sellers who have donated. If you wish to have your posting ID listed on the fundraiser please post it or PM me here so I can make a change. If you have already donated via the buy me a beer from earlier on and wish to have your name listed please PM me here and I will add your ID to the list.

Taking this a step further. I have spoken to a few auction site owners explaining the SHS promotion and asked if they would allow outlinks in listings from there sites to the fundraiser listing's. Those site owners can post here if this will be allowed and or start a thread in there sites linking to this thread as it is explained here.

If you do not wish to donate but want to help you can display the ribbon linking it to the fundraiser listing's at sites like Squidoo or blogs. Display it in your listing's where applicable but please do not display at any eBay pages because it will violate their terms of service. People who do wish to donate I also encourage them to display the ribbon wherever they can. Landing pages and forum siggies will also work.

Below is a HTML code for the ribbon:
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<a href="http://www.thetraderspost.com/product_desc.php?id=157"><img border="0"
src="http://www.thetraderspost.com/thumbs1/4970899cancerA3.gif"></a>

Below is the UBB image for the ribbon which you can right click and copy/paste:


Here is the UBB Code for the image/link:

[*url=http://thetraderspost.com/product_desc.php?id=157][*img]http://www.thetraderspost.com/thumbs1/4970899cancerA3.gif[/img*][/url*]

(just remove each of the * from the above code)


I thank you for your time in reading this post. If you have any questions feel free to PM me here.

Sellers Helping Sellers

With love to Martha & Harold
Joe, Deb and The Crabby Host Staff.
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« Reply #91 on: January 17, 2008, 10:31:37 PM »

Love and Best Wishes Martha, Harold and Family.  Your in our thoughts and prayers. 

Joe I'll be PMing you
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« Reply #92 on: January 17, 2008, 11:14:52 PM »

Martha I ran across this poem and immediately thought of you. The author is unknown, yet their words are powerful.
Sending you and Harold, your children and grandkids my prayers.
 


WHAT CANCER CANNOT DO


Cancer is so limited....

It cannot cripple Love

It cannot shatter Hope

It cannot corrode Faith

It cannot destroy Peace

It cannot kill Friendship

It cannot suppress Memories

It cannot silence Courage

It cannot invade the Soul

It cannot steal eternal Life

It cannot conquer the Spirit


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« Reply #93 on: January 18, 2008, 04:38:58 AM »

WOW chiquita, powerful poem that one.

Harold and Martha - in my prayers 

Susie xxx
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« Reply #94 on: January 18, 2008, 12:18:30 PM »

Harold and Martha   

I think about you two all the time and you both, along with your family are in my prayers.  :heart:

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« Reply #95 on: January 19, 2008, 07:27:02 AM »

That is a super poem!!  I'm so glad it was shared here.

Harold and Martha - thoughts and prayers continue for you.  Know that we are all here for you and that I'm 'keeping the faith'.  I do believe in the power of prayer and positive thinking - and also miracles. 

I'm catching up here since I was away for a day/two/three - so will check out the above 'soon'!!! 
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« Reply #96 on: January 19, 2008, 03:00:18 PM »

I'm back and have reached 'out' for reinforcements!  I think we'd all love massive $$ donations, and perhaps as we work to share the need - they will come!

I did go 'out and share' in the hopes of -----

A.  Getting more prayers for Martha and Harold

B.  Getting more good vibes for Martha and Harold

C.  Requesting folks consider a 'donation' if possible

One question Joe - does it make sense to also post a link to their listed items?  Sales is another way we/others can help --- as it's money in the door?  Just thinking outloud - ya know?

I've added the ribbon here and also at PH!  I'll get it added to a few other siggies in the next day/two.

Love, Hugs and Prayers to all - gotta get some cleaning done - my hubbie went back to work....so I'm hopeful for some 'me time'!!   
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« Reply #97 on: January 19, 2008, 03:23:01 PM »

One question Joe - does it make sense to also post a link to their listed items?  Sales is another way we/others can help --- as it's money in the door?  Just thinking outloud - ya know?

That would be a wonderful help, sometimes thinking outloud pays off.

Just a quick update I spoke with both Martha and Harold a short time ago. Martha has returned home from the Hospital today. There is some better news to share and will allow Harold or Martha the chance to share it when they find the time.

Please keep the SHS donations coming as this goes directly to there paypal account and is helping, every little bit helps and is appreciated.

I was very relieved to hear the excitement in Martha's voice about being home, it really made my day. I spoke to Harold briefly and discussed the future of the SHS promotion. When the time comes where the SHS promotion can be put to good use for another online seller, we will do that (please note this is not going to happen anytime soon). In other words the SHS promotion is here to stay. This is a good thing and something everyone who is involved with the SHS promotion can be proud of.


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« Reply #98 on: January 19, 2008, 05:31:52 PM »

  to all - I'm so glad that Harold and Martha are back home!  That sounds so much 'better' than abroad - esp. when abroad is at the hospital!!  rah rah rah rah

Will watch for news and will share store/item links in my post at Plunderhere (I guess I should have put a link here.....) - here's a link as I don't think I provided that!!

(Told ya I was numpty) - http://plunderhere.com/fo...ums/showthread.php?t=4300

Also Joe - if I need to change wording 'there' to not break any rules 'here' - yell at/for me - and I'll do it.  I am not one to cross-pollinate threads and forums unless it's 'right to do so'!!
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« Reply #99 on: January 19, 2008, 07:22:57 PM »

Hey all:

OK - I added the ribbon to my siggie at PSU, swallowed hard, and made my first post there in a lifetime (so it seems).

I welcome from all of you any feedback, changes, etc. that I need to make.  I want to help and I want to share the need, but certainly do not want to invade the privacy of Harold and Martha.

Here's a link to the post over there:  http://www.powersellersun...topic.php?p=136393#136393

TIA!!
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« Reply #100 on: January 19, 2008, 07:45:30 PM »

Hey all:

OK - I added the ribbon to my siggie at PSU, swallowed hard, and made my first post there in a lifetime (so it seems).

I welcome from all of you any feedback, changes, etc. that I need to make.  I want to help and I want to share the need, but certainly do not want to invade the privacy of Harold and Martha.

Here's a link to the post over there:  http://www.powersellersun...topic.php?p=136393#136393

TIA!!

You done really good Erin IMO that is what a community forum is all about. 

I can only hope that sellers respond in a positive manner.

 
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« Reply #101 on: January 19, 2008, 09:03:01 PM »

Thanks Joe - I've been tweaking on the Traders Post....and you all wonder why I don't have a web site.  I would never get anything listed, as I'm always playing with colors, graphics, etc....  :ermm:
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« Reply #102 on: January 19, 2008, 09:29:18 PM »

Thanks Joe - I've been tweaking on the Traders Post....and you all wonder why I don't have a web site.  I would never get anything listed, as I'm always playing with colors, graphics, etc....  :ermm:

Looking good to, just don't forget you can advertise your other selling venues anywhere on www.thetraderspost.com linking out to your sites is allowed!!!


You did a great job on that post over at PSU Erin  it's working and people even want to send money orders or cash. Here is one slight update to what I was talking about before:

A new domain name was just aquired to accomodate the operations of the SHS promotion.

www.sellershelpingsellers.org

It's parked for the moment but will have a landing page up in a few days or so.

Thank you again for all who have donated promotion and money!!!


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« Reply #103 on: January 19, 2008, 10:00:58 PM »

I want to keep everyone up to date. We are home for now. I will go into as much detail as I can tomorrow. I am very tired. Talking to my friend for life Joe from the hospital has been my lifeline for the past few days. I could have made it without him but it was easier with his help and words of encouragement to both Martha and me. She is in bed now. She tried reading all these post but got tired. I checked on her a little while ago. Her face is calm and unafraid. I thank all of you especial our leaders Joe and Deb. I wrote something for Martha. I am going to give it to her when she wakes up. I want to share it with all of you. I am not a poet but my heart is singing.


Looking at her in that hospital bed
I see the pain she is going through
I understand what people mean when they say
I wish it could me instead of you

Seeing your eyes fill with tears and fears
Of unknown things to come
Made me look into our past years
The ones that were hard the ones that were fun

Even though it is bad, it could have been worse
With friends and strangers wishing you the best
Giving you strength, giving me hope, helping to cope
Our love will stay true until the day we both rest

Going on alone would be not going at all
Now you are sleeping, getting needed rest
Loves have come and loves have gone
You were not the first, but you are the best

Time has done to me what time does
When I run, it is slower
When I lift, it is lower
When I think, it is not as clear

Tomorrow the sun will rise again
Just as we were promised and it is clear
No matter what it throws at us
I pledge to you all my love dear


Good night all stay safe and give each other a hug.

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« Reply #104 on: January 19, 2008, 11:22:47 PM »

Beautiful!  Thanks for sharing 
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